Thursday, January 19, 2012

Get This


Fasten your sensibilities- this will not be easy stuff to read. These are stories from my childhood. Get this....


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  1. Courageous. Good for you, Cairn.

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  2. Cairn,

    Your stories of pain and mental anguish hopefully, now that you can tell them openly, will be a catharsis for you. That is my prayer. I hope someday I have your strength to do the same.

    Richard Wilson
    Friend of Roger's since before time.

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    1. Richard,
      I thank you for your prayer. It is my hope that telling my stories will help others to see that there doesn't need to be shame for all of one's days. I know that shame plays its part in the realizing of the offenses and the heinous start of the healing process, but I feel it should be entertained only briefly. I did not do these things. He did them. My family and it's toxicity can only be neutralized if I do this. We didn't ask for this, did we? But, we certainly do have to clean up the mess, lest the rest of suffer the sour milk.
      Believe it or not, I tell these stories with joy. I am free now and every breath and every moment is a gift.
      That is my prayer for you. I am always here to talk with.
      Any friend of Roger's is a friend of mine, before time and forever more.
      CAirn

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  3. Cairn,
    My heart is broken. I had no idea. I wish I had been old enough and been living close enough to be able to see what was happening to you. I wish i could have been your loving aunt and able to take you away from your nightmare into a truly loving home. I am here for you now. THANK YOU ROGER for helping beautiful Cairn out of the hell.

    Now I know why I was always kept out of the loop when it came to family. I will message you my contact info thru fb. I love you beautiful niece. I am proud of you for getting this out! No one had the right to put you through these horrors

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